Help Sorely Needed, please spread the news!

Hey guys!  I really hate to have to ask for help, but right now help is something I very much need.

Here is the situation. I am a bisexual woman who identifies as gender fluid in a relationship with a bi male who identifies as female and a gay male who identifies as male. I am currently pregnant with our future child.

The one I need help for is the gay male, who goes by the name Ravyn. (He is the one in the blue shirt) His father is emotionally and mentally abusive, and has controlled and treated him like shit his entire life and we have only just managed to help him see this.

Basically, we had to make several big necessary purchases recently, one of which was for the business we are trying to start.

His father threatened to bounce the checks on necessary things we purchased for the house… but that is not all of it.

Ravyn’s oh-so-loving father has actually threatened to throw us out of our house. There is a big possibility that there is not much we can do if he does; while the trust is in Ravyn’s name, his father is the trust holder. Now I don’t know that much about trusts, or how they work but I know one thing; we can NOT lose our house, especially when we are trying to get a business started so we don’t HAVE to rely on the trust anymore. Not to mention the baby on the way!

It has been established that his father is a complete homophobe. He pretends to be supportive in front of everybody else, but during private phone calls, he constantly puts Ravyn down, puts us down, and makes things as hard and miserable for us as he can. He has been actively trying to split us up since we got together.

Because of Ravyn’s dad treating him like shit, he has gotten near the point of suicide several times. Ravyn has depression; while not diagnosed, I can definitely see it and I have been helping him through it, but his father has been putting him through so much stress that Brynn and I had to talk him out of it even today.

-Here is what we want to do-

We want to sue his father. We have piles and piles of evidence, but lawyers are very expensive, and I don’t even know the beginning of what I need for such a lawsuit. We have recordings, as well as three witnesses to his treatment of Ravyn along with the results of said treatment. We want to get the trust transferred fully to Ravyn’s name along with damages for the emotional pain that Ravyn has had to endure for his entire life.

-How can you help?-

You can either donate to my Paypal at volcanolady1@hotmail.com, (All proceeds will go to help support us if his father cuts us off, or towards lawyer fees if we find a good lawyer) OR contact me at

artha@foxxhomesystems.com

That email is one that Brynn set up for me, so that I could get useful information. That is also the registered name of our company; we have not yet gotten the funds to get it started.

If you know a lawyer, or are a lawyer, or can give me legal advice/links/ANYTHING, please do so!

If needed, I can share my phone number with you through a private email to keep in contact, but this is only for those of you seriously willing to help. I will not just give my number out to any person who asks; though I may set up a Google Voice number for this exact purpose.

Please, please spread this if you can. Please PLEASE get this out there; we can not just stand by while our fiance’s homophobic father treats him like shit and threatens to throw us out of our home. We can NOT deal with how Ravyn’s father is treating him, and it’s about time that we do something about it.